Post by anne12 on Jun 2, 2019 19:29:42 GMT
The relationship is the place where we should get pleasure and energy, but unfortunately many find that their relationship does just the opposite. Namely, IT drains and stresses them unnecessarily.
Often there are lots of signs, that we do not thrive optimally in our relationship - but it can be difficult to see them, either because we are stuck in everyday hamster wheels and do not have the power to take the bull by the horns or because the cohabitation has become a habit We are not considering questioning.
Some of the signs may be that you are not looking forward to coming home, feeling drained of energy when you are with your partner and that your days are starting and ending with conflicts and perhaps even quarrels.
The more hidden signs may be that you are not communicating about how you are feeling - or maybe even misunderstand each other, when you talk together - and not talking directly to each other. Prioritizing the children over the partner is also a distortion of the relationship.
It is you as a couple who are to receive family life - and if you are not happy together, there is a great risk that your children will not thrive. Even if they get a lot of love from one parent. The last, and perhaps most common, sign is that the presence and intimacy are either downward or completely gone. A quite natural reaction to not being seen, heard and understood by your partner.
Often there are lots of signs, that we do not thrive optimally in our relationship - but it can be difficult to see them, either because we are stuck in everyday hamster wheels and do not have the power to take the bull by the horns or because the cohabitation has become a habit We are not considering questioning.
Some of the signs may be that you are not looking forward to coming home, feeling drained of energy when you are with your partner and that your days are starting and ending with conflicts and perhaps even quarrels.
The more hidden signs may be that you are not communicating about how you are feeling - or maybe even misunderstand each other, when you talk together - and not talking directly to each other. Prioritizing the children over the partner is also a distortion of the relationship.
It is you as a couple who are to receive family life - and if you are not happy together, there is a great risk that your children will not thrive. Even if they get a lot of love from one parent. The last, and perhaps most common, sign is that the presence and intimacy are either downward or completely gone. A quite natural reaction to not being seen, heard and understood by your partner.