Post by suburbanwizard on Jun 7, 2019 0:37:41 GMT
I've been dating someone who I think is a DA for about 6 months.
She's a work-a-holic with an intense job, and i have my own life so we've taken it slow. Neither of us are in a rush, and because I noticed fairly quickly she was a DA, I've given her lots of space and enjoyed the free time its afforded me.
She tends to initiate contact as much or more than me and she has become very affectionate and demonstrative of her feelings towards me lately, but it was a slow build up. First few moths we hung out maybe every two weeks, texting only to make plans. Last weekend we spent three days together to celebrate her birthday.
I am fairly certain, in most relationships, I am secure. However I can be a little avoidant with some partners, and very rarely I can lose my shit and become anxious.
Currently I don't have any plans to really speed things up, I like seeing her but also am enjoying dating without big goals. I am curious about general tips for dating an dismissive avoidant? Anything to look out for?
She's a work-a-holic with an intense job, and i have my own life so we've taken it slow. Neither of us are in a rush, and because I noticed fairly quickly she was a DA, I've given her lots of space and enjoyed the free time its afforded me.
She tends to initiate contact as much or more than me and she has become very affectionate and demonstrative of her feelings towards me lately, but it was a slow build up. First few moths we hung out maybe every two weeks, texting only to make plans. Last weekend we spent three days together to celebrate her birthday.
I am fairly certain, in most relationships, I am secure. However I can be a little avoidant with some partners, and very rarely I can lose my shit and become anxious.
Currently I don't have any plans to really speed things up, I like seeing her but also am enjoying dating without big goals. I am curious about general tips for dating an dismissive avoidant? Anything to look out for?