Post by dhali on Sept 9, 2019 1:45:41 GMT
Hey there. I’m sorry this happened. It sucks. The general consensus in these parts Is strongly against time spent on the victim side of things. I think that’s fair. You played a part, and had you had a healthier handle on your insecurities, the relationship would have either ended or met your needs (which sounds highly unlikely in this case). In order to have a better handle on things in the future, this surely needs to be addressed.
What I do feel that ignores is that someone hurt you deeply. And so callously. That’s certainly not a joy to experience. And it can call so much of your world into question. I half expect the DA to say - you’re welcome- after you become a better person from this experience. That would require them to consider you though. Anyhow, you need to develop empathy for the person who lacked empathy for you. Best of luck, and I’d forget they exist (in terms of ever having contact again).
What I do feel that ignores is that someone hurt you deeply. And so callously. That’s certainly not a joy to experience. And it can call so much of your world into question. I half expect the DA to say - you’re welcome- after you become a better person from this experience. That would require them to consider you though. Anyhow, you need to develop empathy for the person who lacked empathy for you. Best of luck, and I’d forget they exist (in terms of ever having contact again).
