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Post by alpenglow on Feb 17, 2018 15:51:33 GMT
Well it's not that different for me. Physical attraction is what makes me approach them, but emotional connection is what creates true attraction. I will never be interested in someone who I like physically but with whom I can't connect emotionally.
Perhaps the difference between you and is that I feel this emotional connection very early on, while it takes a lot longer for you to feel it?
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Post by yasmin on Feb 17, 2018 17:08:46 GMT
It's not a set formula or anything bit most people I've dated have been people I knew for a long time before I agreed to date them. Sometimes one conversation turns everything around and I suddenly think "wow". Last person I dated, I thought he was ok for about a year of knowing him. Then one day I was sick and he took care of me and talked to me about his sister's death and what he wanted to do when he retired. Something happened that night and I started to fall in love. After that I wanted to rip his clothes off  I guess maybe it takes a while at times for people to show who they are. With me there's also an element of people needing to show through persistence that they're serious. |
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Post by yasmin on Feb 17, 2018 17:09:51 GMT
I don't feel sexual attraction until waaaaaay in. Wink wink, nudge nudge You are FUNNY  ha ha |
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Post by alpenglow on Feb 17, 2018 17:20:50 GMT
It's not a set formula or anything bit most people I've dated have been people I knew for a long time before I agreed to date them. Sometimes one conversation turns everything around and I suddenly think "wow". Last person I dated, I thought he was ok for about a year of knowing him. Then one day I was sick and he took care of me and talked to me about his sister's death and what he wanted to do when he retired. Something happened that night and I started to fall in love. After that I wanted to rip his clothes off I guess maybe it takes a while at times for people to show who they are. With me there's also an element of people needing to show through persistence that they're serious. Interesting! I have never felt that with anyone. Like, knowing someone for a long time, and then, boom. Is this more common among FAs? It would make sense since you need to build up quite a lot of trust and security in someone before possibly engaging? Nice story, though...maybe I should look for sick women who need care, haha. |
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Post by alpenglow on Feb 17, 2018 17:21:35 GMT
You are FUNNY ha ha Haha, that could explain a few things. Funny |
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Post by yasmin on Feb 17, 2018 17:33:23 GMT
It's not a set formula or anything bit most people I've dated have been people I knew for a long time before I agreed to date them. Sometimes one conversation turns everything around and I suddenly think "wow". Last person I dated, I thought he was ok for about a year of knowing him. Then one day I was sick and he took care of me and talked to me about his sister's death and what he wanted to do when he retired. Something happened that night and I started to fall in love. After that I wanted to rip his clothes off I guess maybe it takes a while at times for people to show who they are. With me there's also an element of people needing to show through persistence that they're serious. Interesting! I have never felt that with anyone. Like, knowing someone for a long time, and then, boom. Is this more common among FAs? It would make sense since you need to build up quite a lot of trust and security in someone before possibly engaging? Nice story, though...maybe I should look for sick women who need care, haha. No idea! I think I am just attracted to people's deep characteristics and I think they sometimes take a while to really show. |
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Post by Jaeger on Feb 17, 2018 19:24:43 GMT
You are FUNNY ha ha I do apologize for that feeble attempt at humour. Here, have a picture 😇 Attachments:
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Post by yasmin on Feb 17, 2018 19:33:13 GMT
Haha. Please cut that out. It's raining in London.
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Post by Jaeger on Feb 17, 2018 19:49:16 GMT
Haha. Please cut that out. It's raining in London. I sympathize. I think I'll be back around freezing point this Thursday, as Holland's not much better  |
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Post by yasmin on Feb 17, 2018 20:01:18 GMT
Haha. Please cut that out. It's raining in London. I sympathize. I think I'll be back around freezing point this Thursday, as Holland's not much better I grew up in Holland! |
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Post by alpenglow on Feb 17, 2018 20:27:41 GMT
More Europeans, yay! Looks very...summery on your island, Jaeger -15C here in the far North! Clear sky. |
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Post by ocarina on Feb 17, 2018 20:32:44 GMT
Far south of UK for me - beautiful day today - looks like summer has come (well perhaps not quite!)
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Post by Jaeger on Feb 17, 2018 20:40:37 GMT
I sympathize. I think I'll be back around freezing point this Thursday, as Holland's not much better I grew up in Holland! It's a small world. We should all organize a forum meet up and hold a competition where we all try to trigger eachother's attachment systems. Last person standing wins a prize! |
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Post by alpenglow on Feb 17, 2018 20:49:53 GMT
Haha! And you're saying this because you seem to be the most secure of us! You just want your prize I'll be in the NL in 2 weeks, let's all meet! |
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Post by Jaeger on Feb 17, 2018 20:54:21 GMT
Haha! And you're saying this because you seem to be the most secure of us! You just want your prize I'll be in the NL in 2 weeks, let's all meet! Argh, you've seen through my dastardly plot! Sounds cool. Hit me up for some info. |
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