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Post by tnr9 on Nov 21, 2018 10:05:51 GMT
Hi tnr9 , how are you? I've been working a lot. I've experienced a bit of a bump in my life, but frankly I'm now very aware of some things inside me that I have to resolve 😊 these two things made me not be online that much. ocarina , a good story! I've reading what happened. I can understand the matters in this forum are often very personal and it can lead to hurt feelings. Much more if this space is basically self-regulated by users, as Jeb is, understandably, very busy, and there are no moderators. I hope the rest of us can focus on carrying on with good and rich conversations about attachment. Hey lilyg .....I am ok...been battling cold like symptoms for a bit. As Thanksgiving gets closer...I find myself missing B more....it is odd how in one sense he is the prized safe haven and in another sense the community we both belonged to now feels very unsafe. I haven't flushed through what defines safety yet but I find my perception of B is something I want to further explore. |
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Post by lilyg on Nov 21, 2018 14:26:26 GMT
Hi tnr9 , how are you? I've been working a lot. I've experienced a bit of a bump in my life, but frankly I'm now very aware of some things inside me that I have to resolve 😊 these two things made me not be online that much. ocarina , a good story! I've reading what happened. I can understand the matters in this forum are often very personal and it can lead to hurt feelings. Much more if this space is basically self-regulated by users, as Jeb is, understandably, very busy, and there are no moderators. I hope the rest of us can focus on carrying on with good and rich conversations about attachment. Hey lilyg .....I am ok...been battling cold like symptoms for a bit. As Thanksgiving gets closer...I find myself missing B more....it is odd how in one sense he is the prized safe haven and in another sense the community we both belonged to now feels very unsafe. I haven't flushed through what defines safety yet but I find my perception of B is something I want to further explore. I hope you get better!  These holidays make me feel super vulnerable too. I sometimes just want to invernate until february hahaha so I can understand. I think it's important for us all to define where do we feel safe, where we take our resilence and energy. I think it help us emulate that in our inner core so we can feel calmer with ourselves. I Hope you can get your answer soon! |
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Post by epicgum on Nov 21, 2018 15:22:58 GMT
I'll second that bit about the holidays. Oh well.
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