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Post by mrob on May 15, 2018 8:56:13 GMT
That’s incredible. That’s the “bad boy” formula encapsulated, but slightly different.
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Post by tnr9 on May 15, 2018 12:14:11 GMT
That’s incredible. That’s the “bad boy” formula encapsulated, but slightly different. Yes...but the "slightly different" is really important....because he is a bad boy out of his wounding. I don't think I would fall for someone who was using tips out of a book....because there would not be a genuine "hook" for me...maybe there would be for others. |
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Post by goldilocks on May 15, 2018 18:45:08 GMT
So once activated you are willing to give and give and give?
And what if...
The little girl got with an avoidant...
And actually healed him...
Then there is less push.
Would you stop being attracted?
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Post by tnr9 on May 15, 2018 20:21:52 GMT
So once activated you are willing to give and give and give? And what if... The little girl got with an avoidant... And actually healed him... Then there is less push. Would you stop being attracted? That is a good question...and as you know...these patterns are formed when we are young...so my little girl has hoped this would lead to both of us becoming secure. The reality however, is that none of my partners have become "healed" due to dating me. |
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Post by goldilocks on May 15, 2018 20:32:31 GMT
Yup!
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Post by leavethelighton on May 17, 2018 0:06:06 GMT
Does anyone actually become healed from dating another person? That seems very unrealistic. Maybe more realistic it could be mutual.
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Post by tnr9 on May 18, 2018 1:43:12 GMT
Does anyone actually become healed from dating another person? That seems very unrealistic. Maybe more realistic it could be mutual. Oh..it completely is unrealistic...but I think the idea that we can heal another comes from a very young place. 🙂 |
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