Post by Deleted on Jun 12, 2018 11:40:44 GMT
Phew...it's complicated isn't it?
I wonder, though, if there is another way to consider long-term relationships?
A few months ago, I met a nice man for whom I have no physical desire and no intellectual affinity but I really like his ability to care and to volunteer to pick me up and drive me to the train station when I visited his city, even though he was occupied 100% with his visiting children and we didn't even go out during my stay. He is one of the most normal men I've met.
I know he likes me, and I like him, we can both care for each other but will be more like siblings, at least for me. He likes me, but I don't know if he will accept a room-mate type of relationship?
I can then feel free to have short affairs with the likes of exDA, liking them for whom they are, severe DAs, and don't feel the need for their companionship, so they can come and go and feel free about not texting in between, but of course they are also dispensable for me.
This is because I don't think it is possible to find all the characteristics I look for in one man, and for him to like me enough to build a future together.
What do you think?
I wonder, though, if there is another way to consider long-term relationships?
A few months ago, I met a nice man for whom I have no physical desire and no intellectual affinity but I really like his ability to care and to volunteer to pick me up and drive me to the train station when I visited his city, even though he was occupied 100% with his visiting children and we didn't even go out during my stay. He is one of the most normal men I've met.
I know he likes me, and I like him, we can both care for each other but will be more like siblings, at least for me. He likes me, but I don't know if he will accept a room-mate type of relationship?
I can then feel free to have short affairs with the likes of exDA, liking them for whom they are, severe DAs, and don't feel the need for their companionship, so they can come and go and feel free about not texting in between, but of course they are also dispensable for me.
This is because I don't think it is possible to find all the characteristics I look for in one man, and for him to like me enough to build a future together.
What do you think?
. I guess Mary Shelley was onto something there!
, 8am to 10pm, everyday, in another country, and I feel somehow an ache in the heart about this. I wonder if he's hurting and is throwing himself into work to deal with the breakup?