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Post by Deleted on May 27, 2018 18:29:31 GMT
Thank you for all the tips! One other question I do have - does anyone ever worry about safety/security when meeting strangers for the first time? I felt really spooked on one occasion when a good-looking younger date seemed to belong to a type of elite secret society one reads about...:/  |
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Post by Deleted on May 30, 2018 14:19:43 GMT
I hope someday someone will invent a "safe dating app" for us, will be so helpful. At the moment, I'm letting my friends know, texting my friends/family that I'm on my way home if it's late, etc. In the end, it's the luck of the draw with the likes of Ted Bundy, I guess. I mean, he went to University, studied psychology, seemed so normal in his photos, and he was a social worker for a suicide helpline to boot. He looked more normal and attractive than a lot of dates I had.  Another dating tip I would love to know is if there are dating sites by Attachment Styles? I would love to meet a true Secure. 
Unfortunately, there are no Secures on this site because the Secure section is dead-er than the DA section!  Ops, bad pun! |
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Post by goldilocks on May 30, 2018 18:19:31 GMT
I think the only people who would come to an attachment themed site are the insecures.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 17, 2018 12:05:27 GMT
i am going to try to do some of these things.
it is painful for me to think of what i would like to do with a partner as i have not had one before who is dear to me.
so i am going to dare to wish for and express something to my partner to ask if he will do it with me.
this will be difficult! but i will do this exercise to see what it brings up for me.
thanks for posting this.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 17, 2018 14:16:13 GMT
wow, i get super choked up when i think about asking to do something that i like!
it's not at all that i don't want to, it's that it would mean a lot to me and it makes me feel really emotional, and like it's a bigger deal to me than i think it should be.
is there anyone else who has such a reaction to this?
i have to really figure out how to do this. it should be easier than it is for me. i get a huge lump in my throat and don't know what to do. i will leave it alone for right now.
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Ops, bad pun! 
