Post by tnr9 on Jun 6, 2018 17:30:09 GMT
Jun 6, 2018 16:39:04 GMT @mechristie said:
You don't owe him anything, he'll manage as he managed before, what's more he's probably better than you think.Keep in mind he might be shifting responsibility(for having sex, for sticking around, for improving yourself, for maintaining friendship) onto you, it can't be like this, even in friendship.
You are right again, in fact, he put the responsibility on my side, as he asked to to be initiative for making date with him.
That is why I’m confused, because at his job, he choose to work for a good cause, my friend that used to work there too, told me that the job is harder than others with less pay. I adimire him for being so responsible to a place that is not that rewarding. He was always tired after work.
Confused because he shifts the responsibilities onto me, I expressed once that it’s hard for him not to tell me what he likes, but complain when I don’t get it right. It was as if he was another person when he was with me.
I would like to know why I was treated that way, and why he would shift his responsibilities on me? But as I ask for help, he would be more distanced...