Not Our Fault

I've seen more than one mention of frustration between AP and DA ways of being or thinking on here. Sometimes people have expressed frustration about other users on here, or their exes, and I get it. There are many moments I think the DA I dated is in the wrong, or bad, or whatever transfers the blame. But the truth is, everyone with attachment issues is struggling, and it's not our fault, our battles are the result of circumstances that arose before we could do anything about them. I've never expressed any anger to the DA I dated to him, but I have been angry at him in my own mind, and to my friends, and I guess I just wanted to put out there that while the hurt I feel may produce anger, deep down I believe there is goodness in all of us, that we're all doing our best, and my wish for everyone to be healthy and well.