Are all anxious people either AP or FA?

There some kind of anxiety that I kind of like to feel. For exempel at my work, at the university. Some level of stress makes my performance better.

In relationship I can say that secure people fights too, we get irritade with eachother and we have bad days, we are just humans. But the anxiety I feel is not going to make me afraid that my partner and I are going to break up and I don’t feel like a have to build walls to protec myself eighter... I know that my partner loves me and that we care for eachother. I will feel anxiety because conflicts are stressful but things are going to be just fine.