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Post by alexandra on Feb 23, 2019 22:21:32 GMT
This is a fantastic video that applies to all insecure attachment styles and thought distortions, whether that's idealizing a partner, waiting for the "one," or some of the childhood reasons insecure types may unknowingly lie to themselves. I'm not in love with the speaker, but his content here is really excellent. youtu.be/LZtF50MqPn0 |
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Post by faithopelove on Feb 23, 2019 23:56:40 GMT
This is a fantastic video that applies to all insecure attachment styles and thought distortions, whether that's idealizing a partner, waiting for the "one," or some of the childhood reasons insecure types may unknowingly lie to themselves. I'm not in love with the speaker, but his content here is really excellent. youtu.be/LZtF50MqPn0I was just watching some of his videos today!  |
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Post by mrob on Feb 24, 2019 14:08:45 GMT
That man is by far the most painful “therapist” I’ve ever seen. Some good stuff there, for sure, but having to sort the wheat from the chaff!!
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Post by faithopelove on Feb 24, 2019 18:16:47 GMT
That man is by far the most painful “therapist” I’ve ever seen. Some good stuff there, for sure, but having to sort the wheat from the chaff!! Agreed!! |
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Post by alexandra on Feb 24, 2019 18:47:46 GMT
That man is by far the most painful “therapist” I’ve ever seen. Some good stuff there, for sure, but having to sort the wheat from the chaff!! Agreed!! Yes, agreed. That's why I don't love the speaker, but it's worth the sorting through. |
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Post by faithopelove on Feb 24, 2019 19:08:54 GMT
Yes, agreed. That's why I don't love the speaker, but it's worth the sorting through. I found a really good one by him yesterday, too. |
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Post by Deleted on Feb 24, 2019 23:13:43 GMT
i actually really like his work (it can be abit hard to hear but i put it on 1.25-1.5x the speed). he was the one that brought to my attention how being AP means I am also unavailable to my partner - I was a problem, not just him. It led me down a rabbit hole of why I wasn't a good partner. the short answer is a lack of self love stemming from an unloving childhood and hence, then inability to provide that love to and accept it from others because I simply didn't have the resources and structures to do all of that. www.youtube.com/watch?v=kzki8U2nfwg |
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