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Post by Deleted on May 26, 2019 18:56:08 GMT
I'm going through the exact same thing as you right now.
Move on. It hurts now but it will get better.
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Post by mamut on May 26, 2019 19:09:41 GMT
Helsbells oh now that's just plain rude. I'm so sorry he's putting you through this again. Interesting fact, I clicked to read your whole story and your threads' titles are, in chronological order: "He's gone again, he blocked me, he made contact, blocked".It might give you a different perspective. I know what your going through is hard, but you really need to step away. You can't possibly be friends if they're are feelings involved. Friends don't block you and also, if a friend doesn't contact me I never wonder if they've found someone else, I'm sure you don't either. Any thought that comes to mind, like "he found someone", try not to engage with it and just sit with it, it will go away. It sucks,it really does, but it's not good for you to keep hanging on and you know it! You (we) can do this!
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Post by lilyg on May 26, 2019 20:12:45 GMT
I am sorry honey! I used to do that when I had a breakup  it made sense for me at the time but didn't think much from it. How are you feeling? |
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Post by lilyg on May 27, 2019 6:07:48 GMT
Thanks everyone for your replies, they all make sense. I think he might be struggling with the break up to so probably thinks it's best for both of us right now. lilyg I had a terrible day in work ruminating on what could possibly be the reason but as the day went on my nervous system began to calm down and will just accept the situation. He is very impulsive so who knows what's going on. Your all right we aren't friends we met on a dating site and became a couple and those feelings are very much still there I think for both of us. I will try my best to do some serious healing now I'm not waiting for the next text. I just think it seems very childish but he is emotionally very childlike. Will stay close to this forum as it really helps me. Thanks again X Stay here, we have your back  He may be doing you a favor! Now it's time to focus on you. |
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it made sense for me at the time but didn't think much from it.