uhhhh this just sounds super unhealthy, no matter what the attachment style is, and the question here I know everyone will ask you is whether you have looked at yourself and asked yourself why you tolerate such BS behavior. Seems like you should be asking yourself what your attachment style is and why you are staying in such a relationship.
Hi there.....I know your anxiety must be through the roof...none of us on this forum can tell you with any amount of certainty whether he will come back. Right now however, it is best to leave him be since he is not responding to you. He may be really embarrassed at how he acted versus stone walling you for something you did.
I do see a lot of very typical AP behaviors above...accommodating, predicting what the other person wants....I honestly think you drew a boundary with him that was good...he was being disrespectful, whether he was being playful about it. Boundaries are healthy.