Post by hannah99 on Sept 12, 2019 19:19:18 GMT
So,FA and I broke up about 9 months ago. In the last three months I've cut off contact with him except when absolutely necessary and am doing really well. About a month ago I deleted him off of social media and we had done all the practicalities so had no need to be in touch.
Then out of the blue he text asking if I'd taken money out of his account (I have no way of doing this) when I said no, he messaged again a few days later asking me if I was sure. Again I said no. He then said, well I'm going to cancel my card then, which I told him was a good idea considering he had money going missing.
He then said he would no longer be supporting me financially with the care of his dog. A dog he abandoned in the breakup and promised to continue paying for if I looked after it for a year after the breakup til I got back on my feet. Completely out of the blue, no warning.
I calmly replied asking if we could come to a compromise and got no reply. This really is going to screw me over financially and break me heart if I give up the dog.
I am so happy and healthy and just feel like he's trying to fuck with me.
Then out of the blue he text asking if I'd taken money out of his account (I have no way of doing this) when I said no, he messaged again a few days later asking me if I was sure. Again I said no. He then said, well I'm going to cancel my card then, which I told him was a good idea considering he had money going missing.
He then said he would no longer be supporting me financially with the care of his dog. A dog he abandoned in the breakup and promised to continue paying for if I looked after it for a year after the breakup til I got back on my feet. Completely out of the blue, no warning.
I calmly replied asking if we could come to a compromise and got no reply. This really is going to screw me over financially and break me heart if I give up the dog.
I am so happy and healthy and just feel like he's trying to fuck with me.