Post by justcheckin on Nov 1, 2019 5:55:24 GMT
Hi
I am Tim, 42, IT consultant from Europe.
Too intelligent for my own good.
My parents are still together and in love.
My youngest brother, has a fruitful marriage with 2 lovely children.
I don't have any childhood trauma's that I know of.
Been to a psychologist for anxiety about getting my driver license years ago.
It worked.
Why is it that I always find myself pushed into insecure attachment roles in relationships?
When I am in a relationship with someone Anxious-Preoccupied, I will play the dismissive role.
When I am in a relationship with someone Dismissive, I will play the anxious role.
Why do my partners always blame me for the relationship dynamics?
Kind regards
I am Tim, 42, IT consultant from Europe.
Too intelligent for my own good.
My parents are still together and in love.
My youngest brother, has a fruitful marriage with 2 lovely children.
I don't have any childhood trauma's that I know of.
Been to a psychologist for anxiety about getting my driver license years ago.
It worked.
Why is it that I always find myself pushed into insecure attachment roles in relationships?
When I am in a relationship with someone Anxious-Preoccupied, I will play the dismissive role.
When I am in a relationship with someone Dismissive, I will play the anxious role.
Why do my partners always blame me for the relationship dynamics?
Kind regards