Post by alexandra on May 18, 2020 23:26:29 GMT
www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/irrelationship/201407/is-your-relationship-real
This is good. Related to the same sort of control and defensive mechanisms present in fantasy bonding, this is a complementary version of it the author calls "irrelationship." It explains why both caregivers and caretakers in a relationship (ie anxious and avoidant insecure styled people) are both emotionally unavailable in some way, seeking control, and falling into dance patterns.
This is good. Related to the same sort of control and defensive mechanisms present in fantasy bonding, this is a complementary version of it the author calls "irrelationship." It explains why both caregivers and caretakers in a relationship (ie anxious and avoidant insecure styled people) are both emotionally unavailable in some way, seeking control, and falling into dance patterns.