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Post by maxymax on Dec 23, 2020 4:02:22 GMT
She didn't keep them...
When we were together, each christmas I gave her tree ornaments as a little gift just because I loved her and was being thoughtful.
Well my ex is my best friends fiance's sister, I was at his apartment tonight and noticed on the christmas tree were the ornaments I had given my ex.
It made me pretty sad she didn't keep them. I know they're just silly little ornaments but I guess I was hoping she'd hold onto them, that they'd always bring a quick smile to her face, a quick flashback to a nice wholesome loving moment between us. But no, she didn't even keep them. She let her sister take them and didn't ask for them back or anything.
Such a stupid thing to even realize or think about but here I am...
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Post by tnr9 on Dec 23, 2020 4:20:30 GMT
She didn't keep them... When we were together, each christmas I gave her tree ornaments as a little gift just because I loved her and was being thoughtful. Well my ex is my best friends fiance, I was at his apartment tonight and noticed on the christmas tree were the ornaments I had given my ex. It made me pretty sad she didn't keep them. I know they're just silly little ornaments but I guess I was hoping she'd hold onto them, that they'd always bring a quick smile to her face, a quick flashback to a nice wholesome loving moment between us. But no, she didn't even keep them. She let her sister take them and didn't ask for them back or anything. Such a stupid thing to even realize or think about but here I am... I think this is yet another example of how you are holding onto a fantasy. I never hold onto gifts from exes once we have broken up. I think this is another opportunity for you to see that she has moved on and you now need to decide what will be best for you going forward.
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Post by Hypatia on Nov 20, 2021 9:02:58 GMT
She didn't keep them... When we were together, each christmas I gave her tree ornaments as a little gift just because I loved her and was being thoughtful. Well my ex is my best friends fiance's sister, I was at his apartment tonight and noticed on the christmas tree were the ornaments I had given my ex. It made me pretty sad she didn't keep them. I know they're just silly little ornaments but I guess I was hoping she'd hold onto them, that they'd always bring a quick smile to her face, a quick flashback to a nice wholesome loving moment between us. But no, she didn't even keep them. She let her sister take them and didn't ask for them back or anything. Such a stupid thing to even realize or think about but here I am... My ex threw away my gifts to him as well, some which I put quite a lot of time and energy and love into creating. He was an FA, he suddenly and abruptly left (we even lived together!), so his getting rid of my gifts hurts even more. He leaves me...AND gets rid of gifts and items...when he was the one who behaved poorly?? Geez. I feel ya.
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