What's is like for the DA when THEY are dumped?

I heard somewhere on a youtube video once that they do experience a sense of loss, but they may not register why they feel sad if that makes sense. I took it as their brain doesn't register it, but their body does. This is probably different for different avoidants....but I think there is some truth in this for a lot of them. He did tell me that he wasn't happier because of the breakup but that his brain felt "less scrambled." Two months after we broke up I added a picture to one of my social media accounts. He immediately viewed the picture (I can see who views my pictures on this app) which i felt was interesting because he rarely gets on that app. Just because they don't reach out to get back together doesn't mean they don't have feelings or are attracted to their ex. Like another member posted on this forum recently.. my ex also sticks with decisions once he makes them and will not go back on it. I don't have the perfect answer to your question (somebody else will hopefully answer it better) but this has been my experience and i hope it helps you