Post by tnr9 on Mar 13, 2023 13:22:01 GMT
GS FOR YOU TO THINK ABOUT
What you hate in others is usually what you hate most in yourself. The people who drive you crazy do so because they reflect back at you the worst aspects of yourself that you have either tried to deny or overcome.
We judge others by the same standards which we judge ourselves. If we judge ourselves by how much money we make, we will judge others by how much money they make. The values we’ve adopted for ourselves are the same values we project onto others.
Reflect: Then consider sharing this thought with others.
THREE THINGS FOR YOU TO ASK YOURSELF
What metrics have you adopted to measure your own self-worth? How have those metrics affected your relationships with others? Have they affected them in a positive way? A negative way? Both?
Recommended: Use these as journaling prompts for the week.
ONE THING FOR YOU TO TRY THIS WEEK
Try forgiving someone for not living up to the metric you’ve established for yourself. Just because you believe you need to do something to deserve love, doesn’t mean everyone else does too. The world requires all different types. Ask yourself, “What value can they provide that I cannot?”
What you hate in others is usually what you hate most in yourself. The people who drive you crazy do so because they reflect back at you the worst aspects of yourself that you have either tried to deny or overcome.
We judge others by the same standards which we judge ourselves. If we judge ourselves by how much money we make, we will judge others by how much money they make. The values we’ve adopted for ourselves are the same values we project onto others.
Reflect: Then consider sharing this thought with others.
THREE THINGS FOR YOU TO ASK YOURSELF
What metrics have you adopted to measure your own self-worth? How have those metrics affected your relationships with others? Have they affected them in a positive way? A negative way? Both?
Recommended: Use these as journaling prompts for the week.
ONE THING FOR YOU TO TRY THIS WEEK
Try forgiving someone for not living up to the metric you’ve established for yourself. Just because you believe you need to do something to deserve love, doesn’t mean everyone else does too. The world requires all different types. Ask yourself, “What value can they provide that I cannot?”
