When anxious meets avoidant

Found this great podcast the other day about the insecure dynamics and I love how she talks about how important it is for us to keep our side of the street clean and work on our own problems instead of focusing on our partners. Related to this she talks about how even the most secure person can be polarized into avoidance or clinginess based on their partners behaviors. So finding a "secure" partner isn't a solution unless we address our own issues first.


www.growingself.com/when-anxious-meets-avoidant/