Post by Deleted on Jan 24, 2018 13:29:58 GMT
trn9 i didn’t take offense to your post but we seee it entirely differently is all.
The threads were derailed by non-avoidants.
Questions posted there were full of assumptions and distortions too, and it would be awesome to have a recovery space to type and read without all that from the non-avoidant perspective. My reason for saying that is it truly becomes a waste of time and energy to satisfy other people’s curiosity when my aim is to sort my own thoughts out.
That’s all. I don’t mind other perspectives but don’t care to be bombarded with them at every turn, it simply would be nice to have a space where that isn’t such a big presence and could be more easily ignored.
Non-avoidants are not withholding questions and opinions there because they are not being asked to. (in the signage) Like Yasmin said earlier, they don’t even realize that they are missing something (put nicely here) because their focus is not on avoidants recovering it is on satistfying their curiosity.
I said it’s fine the way it is because i accept it and have let it go and won’t post there because i don’t like it, but someone else may use the space as it is. Who knows. Its become a non-issue after further discussion is all. I’m over it
The threads were derailed by non-avoidants.
Questions posted there were full of assumptions and distortions too, and it would be awesome to have a recovery space to type and read without all that from the non-avoidant perspective. My reason for saying that is it truly becomes a waste of time and energy to satisfy other people’s curiosity when my aim is to sort my own thoughts out.
That’s all. I don’t mind other perspectives but don’t care to be bombarded with them at every turn, it simply would be nice to have a space where that isn’t such a big presence and could be more easily ignored.
Non-avoidants are not withholding questions and opinions there because they are not being asked to. (in the signage) Like Yasmin said earlier, they don’t even realize that they are missing something (put nicely here) because their focus is not on avoidants recovering it is on satistfying their curiosity.
I said it’s fine the way it is because i accept it and have let it go and won’t post there because i don’t like it, but someone else may use the space as it is. Who knows. Its become a non-issue after further discussion is all. I’m over it
