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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2018 14:47:46 GMT
What i see happening here is so awesome. I see a lot of pain but i see everyone really pulling together to help each other through triggers and confusion. when one is weak, others are strong, and we are all here for each other. I too am in a painful grief process from a breakup, and it helps me tremendously to focus on self care and healing. it’s the best i can do for me, and also for him should we reconcile one day. Of course i have that hope too, but i have got to keep growing for myself because whether we do or don’t i want to love in a healthy way. so thank you, all of you. ❤️
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2018 14:59:18 GMT
i am currently at the gym bench pressing and he is texting me but i feel cool as a cucumber and am keeping my objectives front and center. It’s nice to hear from him but i am not feeling vulnerable to a hasty reconciliation, i feel strong and peaceful. because i am engaging here.
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Post by kristyrose on Jan 29, 2018 17:50:13 GMT
What i see happening here is so awesome. I see a lot of pain but i see everyone really pulling together to help each other through triggers and confusion. when one is weak, others are strong, and we are all here for each other. I too am in a painful grief process from a breakup, and it helps me tremendously to focus on self care and healing. it’s the best i can do for me, and also for him should we reconcile one day. Of course i have that hope too, but i have got to keep growing for myself because whether we do or don’t i want to love in a healthy way. so thank you, all of you. ❤️ Was thinking the same last night! I've been on this site since October and I've really seen it grown into something really special. I just got up and started my day with some coffee and when I saw this post it really made me happy and hopeful! I still haven't heard from ex since thursday and normally that triggers me so badly, I cannot even sleep alone in my own house. Now, not only does it not trigger me, I get some relief from the quiet and I focus on taking care of myself. A whole new feeling for me. I of course hold the same hope, but you stated it perfectly that we have to keep growing either way if we want to live healthy. Great post tgat, and THANK YOU!!
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