Post by tnr9 on Mar 15, 2018 1:10:18 GMT
I feel like I am finding out so many things about myself that I am struggling to prioritize them...in fact....because it seems so overwhelming at times...it almost feels better to focus on others, even though I have no influence on them like I do with myself.
Specifically...I have been focused on "B" again.....he mentioned on Sunday about a condition (out of respect for his privacy I am not going to list it) that he has that he had brought to my attention early in our friendship. I really had not given it much thought, but since he mentioned it, I decided to look it up and now I feel like I missed an opportunity to better understand him because I was so busy trying to understand him through other avenues (such as attachment theory). I realize this doesn't help me to move forward, but I find myself still so very focused on him. Just owning it.
Specifically...I have been focused on "B" again.....he mentioned on Sunday about a condition (out of respect for his privacy I am not going to list it) that he has that he had brought to my attention early in our friendship. I really had not given it much thought, but since he mentioned it, I decided to look it up and now I feel like I missed an opportunity to better understand him because I was so busy trying to understand him through other avenues (such as attachment theory). I realize this doesn't help me to move forward, but I find myself still so very focused on him. Just owning it.
