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Post by Deleted on Apr 3, 2018 15:06:59 GMT
Hey guys! I wanted to share with you my favourite attachment resource on the internet - there's an attachment psychotherapist that I follow on Youtube called Alan Robarge. He is so brilliant at explaining the dynamics from an AP frame of mind. It's honestly so validating to listen to him explain the crazy-making experience we all live through. I wanted to show you this video about obsessive, looping, thinking about the ex after a relationship ends, and why this pre-occupation with the other person as a constant reference point actually takes place.
This other video about burning the bridge of a relationship you know is the wrong relationship for you is probably the one of his best, and most brutally honest videos - it's the one that I find myself going back to over, and over, and over again. It's some real truth serum for me.
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Post by Jaeger on Apr 3, 2018 15:50:12 GMT
Thanks for sharing and I hope this will be of great use to people here.
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Post by pooched on Apr 5, 2018 3:18:12 GMT
Thank you for sharing. I've gone through some of his videos and they are spot on!
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Post by tnr9 on Apr 6, 2018 19:00:55 GMT
Wow...the one about obseesing and that being my need for connection really spoke to me. Thank you for sharing.
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nic
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Post by nic on Apr 6, 2018 22:46:01 GMT
Hey guys! I wanted to share with you my favourite attachment resource on the internet - there's an attachment psychotherapist that I follow on Youtube called Alan Robarge. He is so brilliant at explaining the dynamics from an AP frame of mind. It's honestly so validating to listen to him explain the crazy-making experience we all live through. I wanted to show you this video about obsessive, looping, thinking about the ex after a relationship ends, and why this pre-occupation with the other person as a constant reference point actually takes place.
This other video about burning the bridge of a relationship you know is the wrong relationship for you is probably the one of his best, and most brutally honest videos - it's the one that I find myself going back to over, and over, and over again. It's some real truth serum for me. Thanks for sharing ill definitely check it out!
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Post by flic on Apr 15, 2018 10:08:20 GMT
These are great, thanks so much for sharing. Really useful in understanding Attachment Trauma, how it can manifest, and some ways to contend with it.
The video about 'Conscious Contact' rather than No Contact in particular, gave me a whole new perspective.
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