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Post by DearLover on May 6, 2018 14:29:41 GMT
I decided to take up lessons of something that I used to love but haven’t practiced for about 20 years. It made me feel so good and at the right place. Sudden my identity and sense of self became stronger and I felt more present and in love with me. Detail: to my surprise the instructor was not only hot, he seemed to have a nice personality, I was attracted straight away! Attracted to a new man in nearly 9 months since the break up! Hooray!!! After the lesson we chatted for a bit and I could have stayed and chatted more but I left. I usually get weird in 1st time meetings/ conextions even if there’s no agenda involved. Perhaps it’s insecurity or a bit of avoidance...
But anyway, if this guy was available, he seemed like he would be a good candidate but .... he is actually shorter than me ... and I don’t like it... ;(
Anyway left the class feeling amazing and wondering why did I spent so much time stuck on ex DA BF. I’m very excited for new beginnings even if it involves only myself, my life and my passions! Let’s live our life to the fullest and be happy regardless of ex, current or future men.
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Post by tnr9 on May 6, 2018 14:33:20 GMT
That is great news DearLover. So excited to read of your progress!!!👏🏻😀
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Post by cogs74 on May 6, 2018 21:41:16 GMT
Cmon Tnr9, give this short man some love....for me lol
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Post by cogs74 on May 6, 2018 21:42:53 GMT
Oh my bad, give that short man some love....request from another short man lol
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Post by DearLover on May 6, 2018 21:43:13 GMT
And it will get better. Tomorrow I am going to an event. The host and I flirt whenever we meet but time, location, limitations always get in the way... It will be good to see him tomorrow again and feel like a woman.
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Post by cogs74 on May 6, 2018 21:45:58 GMT
It must feel good to be experiencing these positive emotions... enjoy
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Post by DearLover on May 6, 2018 21:47:05 GMT
Cmon Tnr9, give this short man some love....for me lol LOL, was this meant for me? It feels weird being with a man who is shorter than me...for hugs etc...but he is so damn hot, damn it, beautiful smile, expressive eyes, there is definitely a spark!
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Post by DearLover on May 6, 2018 21:50:46 GMT
Oh my bad, give that short man some love....request from another short man lol Oh! Do you usually date taller women? How does it feel for you? Thing is...my last two husbands were as tall as me, and because I had lots of trauma with them, I try to avoid short men...I know it is totally irrational and stupid lol
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Post by cogs74 on May 6, 2018 22:54:02 GMT
Wow, I haven’t been quite in the mindset of thinking about other woman. 46 days into no contact with my ex (she was 5’8 and I’m 5’6) and I’d do anything to hear her voice but I know I can’t reach out.
I have dated taller and shorter women. And I know it’s an issue for many. Not as easy to feel feminine with a shorter man but if the rest of the package is good it can be great. You sound like you like his looks lol...
I know it’s a basically a must to be attracted to our partner but it really is how about how you treat one another...
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Post by leavethelighton on May 7, 2018 23:40:43 GMT
I think it's hard enough in life to find awesome people than to worry about things like height, but maybe I'm being overly judgemental :-o
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Post by DearLover on May 8, 2018 10:12:46 GMT
As long as the man is my height or few inches taller than me it’s ok. I feel more feminine if I’m not the bigger one. But I will try and keep an open mind. If a guy ticks all of the other boxes so being shorter than me will be a non issue I’m sure.
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