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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 3:29:45 GMT
Oh yeah, I got a total of 63. Top of the "what does this number mean" leaderboard! 😁 I don't know how I can be equally Secure and Disorganized at the same time though. It seems a contradiction in terms I guess because my numbers are so equal my markers must appear very central in the cross section of the four attachment areas, rather than being on the outer limits of extremity. This makes me happy as it shows I am not a lost cause! If I was showing as an extreme FA in the test results I would be feeling more neurotic than ever right now 👍 this has made me happy even if I believe the jeb test is a better and more accurate one 's result was equal like that too, secure/anxious. it seems like it would be accurate to weigh secure vs combined insecure? what was your overall result in the email ? |
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 3:34:46 GMT
i like the jeb test too.
that has me pretty similar actually-
well, a little more avoidant, right on the dismissive side of secure.
and low anxiety. maybe not 2.9 % i'm not sure - but low. i think it was over there by the first anxiety dot.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 15:16:26 GMT
Who did you think of, when you did the test? (Your mom, dad, recent ex, your first ex ect.) Were you thinking of a period when you were under stress or when you were more calm? i thought of my recent partner, with whom i am still in contact. same with jeb's test. i took jeb's test when still fully involved with my recent dismissive partner. my over all jeb result is overall secure partner dismissive almost secure friends secure both mom and dad FA I don't understand the FA as i'm quite avoidant with both parents, but i'm sure there is the parent/child dynamic of wishing i had a connection to them. I cannot understand FA with romantic partner, i thought i had a view of it but seeing the dynamics as they are expressed on the forum i realize that i can't understand and it seems more painful than DA, i am sympathetic. I have tried to relate that to how i feel about my parents but i can't. Perhaps if i had higher anxiety i would be able to understand. i moved a long way toward secure during my last relationship with a dismissive who is not aware of attachment but in therapy for other things. i worked hard to try to solve things in me because it was impossible for me to have him and be really avoidant too. i kept shutting it down the more it meant to me. |
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Post by goldilocks on Aug 7, 2018 16:45:16 GMT
Secure 19 61,3%
Avoidant/Dismissiv 6 19,4%
Ambivalent/Anxious 1 3,2%
Disorganized 5 16,1%
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Post by goldilocks on Aug 7, 2018 16:55:10 GMT
I have taken this test earlier, and I have become both more secure and more disorganised. I was more dismissive in the past.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 17:18:55 GMT
Secure 19 61,3% Avoidant/Dismissiv 6 19,4% Ambivalent/Anxious 1 3,2% Disorganized 5 16,1% so similar to me goldi! 👯♀️ |
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Post by ocarina on Aug 7, 2018 17:44:11 GMT
12 secure 28.8%
16 avoidant dismissive 38.1%
10 ambivalent/anxious 23%
4 disorganised 9% disorganised
Not surprising I am confused!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 17:55:36 GMT
12 secure 28.8% 16 avoidant dismissive 38.1% 10 ambivalent/anxious 23% 4 disorganised 9% disorganised Not surprising I am confused! ah! brokenbiscuit was spread around a lot also! ❤️ we love ya! 😜🙂 |
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Post by goldilocks on Aug 7, 2018 19:59:58 GMT
Secure 19 61,3% Avoidant/Dismissiv 6 19,4% Ambivalent/Anxious 1 3,2% Disorganized 5 16,1% so similar to me goldi! 👯♀️ Yup! Sisters!
I wonder how the average person tests.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 20:15:19 GMT
so similar to me goldi! 👯♀️ Yup! Sisters!
I wonder how the average person tests.
Sisters indeed, so thankful! I wonder, how would an average secure person test?!? |
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Post by goldilocks on Aug 7, 2018 20:32:20 GMT
In Jeb's test, I am completely secure:
According to your responses, your general attachment style is Secure.
Here is a summary of your attachment style across various relationship domains. Please note that you may not have answered questions for each of these domains. Also, to prevent the symbols from overlapping in the graph, we added a tiny bit of noise to each value. Thus, if you're near the boundary, you might be classified in a less reliable way and you should take those classifications with a grain of salt.
Relationship Domain Your Attachment Style
General Secure
Mother Secure
Father Not applicable
Romantic Secure
Friend Secure
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Post by stayhappy on Aug 7, 2018 20:58:10 GMT
Secure: 21 72,4%
Anxious: 5. 17,2 %
Dismissive: 2 6,9 %
Desorganised: 1 3,4%
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 21:04:58 GMT
58% on Secure
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Post by Deleted on Aug 7, 2018 22:52:27 GMT
Secure: 21 72,4% Anxious: 5. 17,2 % Dismissive: 2 6,9 % Desorganised: 1 3,4% now we know how a secure tests! 😃 |
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Post by stayhappy on Aug 8, 2018 0:16:57 GMT
Secure: 21 72,4% Anxious: 5. 17,2 % Dismissive: 2 6,9 % Desorganised: 1 3,4% now we know how a secure tests! 😃 I did the test thinking about my longest relationship (8 years) and it finished because he was cheating on me. If I have made the test 2016 just efter the broke up it would probably show a little more anxious and/or avoidant tendencies. But maybe if I take the test while in a relationship where there is no reason to suspect/worry about cheating it could show even more secure results I assume 😊 |
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